It won't be an easy thing for him to hear, but I think its a necessary one. I'm not sure who your father is but it isn't me. I am sorry to hear you're going through a hard time. Me and your mom were never married, and when I took a paternity test it came back negative. I don't want you to feel any further rejection by me ignoring you, so I'll share with you the truth. U/Thin-Manufacturer892 gave the OP some advice in a top comment with over 17,000 upvotes, "Maybe he doesn't need the details of his mother? Maybe just the facts, in a really kind way, like 'hi I'm sorry to hear you're struggling. Redditors were quick to defend the OP in the comment section,
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I never took the bait until he reached out to me himself. He wrote, "Some old friends also informed me that Damien would post nasty things on social media about his dad who left him when he was born. Every so often, Allie would reach out and ask for money or see if OP wanted to see Damien, but OP ended up blocking her. He reveals that he has no contact with Allie or Damien. fizkes/iStock / Getty Images PlusĪlmost two decades later, OP has a wife and three kids.
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The internet has defended a man on Reddit's r/AmITheA**hole forum for insisting on showing "son" paternity test results.